When the seed has been planted and is starting to shoot, you’ll start to encourage yourself to go deeper: waking up and edging on your knees for Goddess; cutting back on your luxuries so that you can contribute more towards mine; listening to my voice on loop whenever you get a few minutes. You want me to notice your sacrifices and your burgeoning devotion and swallow you whole, knowing my very favourite boys have been entirely brainwashed past the point of any return. It’s the life you want.

You want to show me that you are the weakest prey, to inspire my predatory nature to manipulate you into a feeling of being hypnotically or sexually consumed by me. It doesn’t matter if you have a significant other or any other kind of distraction, your subconscious is screaming to you that what you really crave is my control. My sensual femdom makes more sense than any of your vanilla relationships ever have when you think about it.

So you’ll work to impress me, and you’ll be praised for doing a good job, or corrected when you miss the mark, and you’ll sink a little deeper. Conditioned to give me pleasure, and conditioned to get pleasure from MY pleasure. This is the loop that you need to be trapped in.

You know you’ve got what it takes to please me, you’re so pliable. Obedient. Ready to truly sacrifice. 

If you’ve ever felt that way about me, I want to share the main 4 things that help me to determine whether I want to play with a potential sub or a casual pet. Hopefully this reassures those good boys to come and explore their kinks with me, and I’m also hoping this filters out people that are not right for me.

Let’s dive in:

1. I love when you’ve done your research. When you ‘get’ me, know what I’m into and something has resonated with you to the point that you want to find out more, and approach clearly telling me why from all the dommes on twitter you’ve come to me. This is the single most important thing- your domme shouldn’t be interchangeable if you’re looking for a D/s relationship, and if you’re simply looking for casual play, you should know why you’re motivated to come to me rather than someone else too.

If you’re not sure where this info is… my site has a ton of info (including a handful of blogs about my favourite kinks), my twitter is posted to near daily, I’ve got a huge bank of answers on my curious cat, and I have 2 Onlyfans. A quick browse of any of these is going to give you enough insight to work out if I’m right for you or not.

2. I want you to know yourself. Saying you’re into everything isn’t sexy, it’s lazy. Saying you will do anything I want reads that you’re inexperienced or think that my being a hypnodomme also makes me a mindreader. We’re all learning what we like in kink all the time so if you don’t have an exhaustive list, that’s understandable, but we all have cravings and limits. In line with point one, your kinks should be a good fit with mine; you should know this if you’ve done your research. 

In this vein, it’s good to know if you’re wanting a D/s relationship or something casual (or a casual set up that has the fantasy of a deep relationship woven in); more as an FYI for me to pace or for play, but good for you to understand yourself and your kink.

3. Paying me is a privilege and you understand that. Payment is non-negotiable: it’s irrelevant that you are a finsub or not, my time is not free and there’s nothing you can do to tempt me into playing with you for free, so please don’t attempt it. I get so few time wasters reaching out to me but I can still spot someone doing their utmost to avoid tribute. Good Boy 101: Respect my time and my vast talents.

4. Respectful, honest boys are the best boys. Whether it’s play or a relationship, you’re dealing with a person rather than a fetish dispenser and I won’t accept being spoken to disrespectfully, or accept any excuses for choosing to not communicate in a way that’s reasonable. This is play (even when it’s deeply real) and it really should feel fun and beautiful – but for us both, not just the person paying. I don’t want to work around personality problems because you need to be trained to be a good person before I take over to make you a good sub for me. Poor experiences mean that I don’t give second chances without exceptional circumstances so your best bet is to simply be respectful from the off.

If they all seem really easy for you, I’ll want you to approach me.

Message me on Twitter or Onlyfans or email the address here and sink into the sweet control your subconscious craves.

The beauty of hypnosis from a consent perspective, is that it’s impossible to do something your subconscious doesn’t want you to do. Attempting to would simply lift you out of trance to keep you safe. There is no amount of mind hijacking to change that. But if we’re about to embark on a beautiful journey, with pleasure on both sides and some crucial mutual respect, it’s got to start from, and be full of, areally enthusiastic yes.

Shy subs are not exempt here, there’s no being coaxed into playing with me; I want you as keen to play with me as I am with you, and paying for a session isn’t enough by itself when what you’re letting me toy with is the infrastructure of your subconscious.

It’s not purely because I love to hear a submissive beg me to take control, though I absolutely am aroused by this, but that it makes me feel safe in our play, and you’ve got significant buy-in, which makes your hypnotic induction a breeze. I can practically see your eyes begging to roll back in your head when I can hear/read your sweet craving for my control.

The enthusiastic yes is absolutely two-way- I want to be enthusiastic about playing with you too! I want to know that we’re both in a good head space; that we’re compatible; that we share enough kinks that you’ll enjoy dropping deeply into trance for me; that I don’t feel like you’re trying to manipulate me in any way. This last point is particularly key for me. I’m not enthusiastic or even open to play with someone who has been intentionally deceptive, even when there’s been a significant and established relationship prior. It’s a low bar, but in online spaces where lies are so easy to reel off without consequence, it’s important for me to share. It’s also something I’d previously tried to ignore of myself and it’s not been effective for me, for hypnosis specifically.

Share your limits and loves with me, and let our really enthusiastic yeses be the start of a really beautiful hypnotic experience.

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